What Many Miss with the Law of Attraction 

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I love the brevity, clarity and confidence in it. Simple yet beautiful.

The author is writing about the Law of Attraction and how we often avoid the more “negative” feelings and emotions. We tend to not think about them because we fear we’ll attract them if we do. But by doing so, we create (in the words of the author) a charge. Instead of releasing those feelings, we resist them. And thus we attract them.

“To heal, we must feel.”


Our souls simply want for us to experience what we’ve missed from previous lessons. So these things will keep reappearing in our lives – if we fear abandonment, for example, we will attract people and we’ll recreate situations when we’re feeling abandoned. And so forth.

How can we get out of this vicious cycle?

“We must walk through the valley of the shadows of death. Once we gain neutrality to that event in how we feel, emote and behave, then we decrease the pull of attraction of those experiences to us.”


But I’ll let you read the original article and please make sure to like it and comment on it. There’s great wisdom and depth in the words of Tiffany Being Free.

“So remember, the pain is in the resistance. What we resist persists. What persists we attract back to ourselves.”


As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts, x

unfiltered from the heart

Many who practice the Law of Attraction often forget a few key components, what we resist persists. The pain is in the resistance. Allowing and surrendering heal us.  So many who are practitioners avoid the “void” feelings because they say feeling it will attract it. True! And not healing it keeps it in your energy field, too!

So many in the spiritual community focus on the rainbows and butterflies, resisting and ignoring the rain and the death of the caterpillar that must occur prior to the birth of the other.

Both negative and positive emotions have “charges.” These charges attract like charges. So when we carry fear, knowingly or unknowingly, we attract fear into our lives. It is merely our soul’s attempt to fully experience the thing that we missed in our previous lessons. So when we don’t fully heal from something it stays in our field as a charge. It…

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I'm Vilina Christoph and I share my journey of healing and transformation. My awakening was triggered by the death of my mother and sister of cancer. When the feelings became too much to handle, I started documenting my experiences of dealing with depression and anxiety, coping with the loss and grief, and the general lack of motivation and joy in life.  Since the beginning of this journey of transformation I've learned compassion, acceptance and love for myself and others. My mission is to encourage others to look into their pain and take on the path of self-love. By accepting who you are with all your imperfections, by loving yourself fully with all your wounds, you find the strength to be your most authentic self and you unlock your unique gifts in the world.

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